Only you can really answer that one hon, you need to ask yourself whether you trust him or not and if the answer if anything other than yes then there really is no point, trust is the major basic in every relationship, also can you forgive him? are you likely to bring it back up in arguments?. You need to ask yourself these questions, from what i can gather by your msg he had the affair before you got together its only since you have been together you have found msgs on his phone, if he is now saying he has fallen for you ask him not to bring her up in every convo thats if you decide to stay with him, also ask yourself where you draw the line ? how many times are you willing to forgive him , i once forgave a guy i truly loved for cheating it was only a kiss but neathertheless it really hurt it and he repayed me by doing it again, so i left him, he followed me from work waited outside my house and begged me to forgive him and no matter how much i loved him i couldnt my heart and feelings dont be deserved to be trampled over, we are all human and most of us have feelings. Hope you make the right decision for you and you alone in the long run and wish you all the best. xx
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