hi all Im very new to this and this is the first forum i have come into so far. Im not exactly a new mum any more my monkeys are 5 and 7. i had to respond to Scarletwomans question about the whole miscarriage thing. Scarlet sweetie i am so very very sorry for your loss, i know your pain as i endured 4 miscarriages myself, i know it may not seem like it right now but i promise you things will get better and you will heal from the pain. Please keep your chin up babe and look forward and know tht you are safe and healing a little more each day xxx.