Im in a relationship with a lovely man, his everything i want in terms of personality however i feel as though i am always the one that initiates anything sexual and feel as though i am the only one thats really affectionate. He says he loves me and always says how sexually attracted he is to me. We should be past the shy stage now, he has more of a sexual past than me, i love him but if im going to really be commited i need to feel loved and need someone who pays attention to me. Help!