kelliebabyxxx
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Reged: 06/06/2009
Posts: 1
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firstly hi all, and thankyou for reading this post
im in a relationship 4 an a half years now (not married)
we have 2 children, and im extremely unhappy, i hide it well tho, i no for a fact if there was no kids involved id be gone, but what should i do now, he's happy the kids are happy but its on me.. do i stay with him to keep him and the kids happy or do i leave upset everyone but myself??? any advice appreciated
thanks
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RLL72
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Reged: 18/06/2009
Posts: 13
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Hi Kelli,how are you today?
Well i'm just read your post and i have to be honest with you because is the way i am.In your shoes i'll leave the relationship. You think you will be selffish doing this and will make unhappy to your partner and kids but the truth is if you don;t leave you are the one will be unhappy and with the time will be so bad for you.You'll became depress and miserable and tell me how your kids will be happy if their mum is depress and unhappy?.I think you have to be honest with your partner and with yourself.Will be hard at the begginning but everything will change and you and your kids will be very happy. A nd your partner will still see the kids when he will want,nothing and nobody can change that they are his kids too and the kids still will love him.
Wherever you will do all the luck in the world and be strong and if you need something you nkow where to found me and please before doing something silly contact me, i check the site everyday.All the best.
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stephanieoh
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Reged: 10/08/2009
Posts: 5
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have you tried talking to him and telling how you feel,i had depression and kept it from my partner for almost a year and talking really does help now im happy even thow it can be hard at times
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