caurus
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Reged: 29/03/2009
Posts: 5
Loc: england
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im 20, ive been with my boyfriend nearly 2 and a half years now and im bored. Hes my best friend and i couldnt bare to hurt him. Hes very attractive, im just not sure Im in love with him. i keep getting crushes on other men and i feel aweful. Is this what all long term relationships turn into? If we broke up i know id lose him im just not sure if its worth it. Any advice.
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canarybelle
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Reged: 29/04/2009
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Hon, you're still a babe in arms and two years is a relationship, but not too long-term. Have you sat down and talked with him to ask him if he feels the same? Maybe you've just grown up and grown out of each other? You said that maybe you'd lose him - but you're only twenty. You have DECADES of opportunity in front of you. Why don't you both take some 'time out' from each other to be with your friends, and he with his, and see how that goes? Agree to it as a temporary situation of say three months, but agree not to see anyone else during that time - it'll complicate matters if you decide get back together. You can love someone without being in love, you can be heavily 'in like' or you can just be used to each other.
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