krazybimbo
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Reged: 31/03/2008
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ok where do i start erm im so lost i need direction in october 07 i lost my 1st baby as you can imagine this destroyed me and my fiance was really supportive and caring he couldnt do enough for me but i just wanted to be left alone so i just kept pushing him away now call me what you will but luckly we didnt split as we were starting to get back on track crisis struck me again.
I was out with my work friends 4 days before chrismas and i was getting ready to leave one friend came to wait outside with me while i waited for my taxi but i told them to leave that i would be ok and i think you know whats happened next yup i was dragged into a dark ally by an unknown male that sexually assalted me i havent since left the house i hate crowds and im falling deeper and deeper into depression. now you know the base line of my problem i need to know how i can get close to my fiance again i love him so much he is my world and i dont know what i would do without him. Am i a bad person what do i do.
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Redshoes
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Reged: 04/02/2008
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So sorry to hear about your horrible experience. Of course your not a bad person. THe man who attacked you is a bad person. I think all you can do is talk to your fiance and tell him how you feel and that you love him. You can get therapy too to helpo you cope with it all. I think eventually you have to let go of the past and try to look at the future and the good times you can have with your partner. I watchd a telly show resently on depression and you can get better with help, even just talking, don't need to take tablats.
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my2kidsrmyworld
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Reged: 23/04/2008
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I have never read this magazine what do you think of it??
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Kitten
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Reged: 28/04/2008
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Hiya what you need to do is take it one step at a time and let your partner comfort you else you will end up losing him I was sexually assaulted by my brother when I was 7 years old so your not on your own but I have managed to cope and I am moving on with my life I have the perfect partner and couldn't be happier talk to your partner and tell him how you feel From Kitten xx p.s Hope this helps you and your hubby
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ALmost_Twenty
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Reged: 13/07/2008
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YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON!!! What happened to you was a terrible thing that is happening quite a lot now to us women, you dont hear about men being sexually assaulted now do you? It might take a bit of time to get close to your partner again as you are quite probably hurt and being sexually assaulted frightens the life out of you and make u not want to live anymore or depressed (which is what u say u r) One thing you could try doing is if you havent already, tell your partner what happened to you so they know, tell the police maybe to see if they can catch the man who did it and try to get out of the apartment, maybe start with a walk down to the shop, take your partner wiht you if you dont feel safe on your own. Healing takes time. I just hope you will be okay.x
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