elo. im twenty two and im about 4"11 and 13 stone 4 pounds.i have tried everything to lose weight and nothing has worked.i have got a lovely fiancee that supports m in every possible way.if i had the money i wouldnt think twice on having surgery.really depressed bout it. suicide is in my mind alot.my self estim is the size of a coffee bean.i know there is ppl out there that are in worst situation then i m.The reason for m to want to lose weight is because i cant walk, cant go up stairs cant do anything without stopping to rest.everytime i look at magazines and i see ppl that get offered surgery at 40 and 50 and even before surgery they look good.y cant we young ppl have those chances?dont mean to b rude. not everyone that is a bit bigger then usual done it on purpose.