ALmost_Twenty
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Reged: 13/07/2008
Posts: 13
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I am not quite sure what more i can do. Two days ago i nearly lost my boyfriend of 3 years and 3 months because he had got bored of doing the same thing every day. waking up, playing his game, getting me from work, watching tv in my room with me and going home and doing it all over again. I said that we can change, im trying not to ring him as much and im giving him space which is what he wanted. im nineteen and he is seventeen nearly eighteen. But last night he told me he didnt want space incase it made us too distant so i really dont know what to say to that. i am confused, he wants space but doesnt want too much and when i suggest a few hours a day or every couple of days he says its confusing. i know he wants to make it work as he says so and so do i. he is the love of my life and means the world to me. Please does anyone know of anything i can do to save my relationship. Reply asap!!!!
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scampchen
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Reged: 07/05/2007
Posts: 7
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It sound a tad harsh but having read your post, it seems like you are doing all the thinking and working things out in order to salvage the state of play. What has he suggested to improve the situation apart from not going with your good-natured intentions? The least he could do is to suggest something else if he doesn't agree with you. Does he work? If not maybe that might give him something to concentrate his mind so you can get on with your job. This probably came out entirely wrong, but I meant it with good intentions. Good luck pet xo
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pinklady
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Reged: 11/09/2007
Posts: 6
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hey! you should also go to moanaboutmen.co.uk - theres a few more people on there who might help you....dont be lost there are lots of online places to help you out hun
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Donna_Bramhall
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Reged: 03/11/2008
Posts: 12
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i know where your coming from the other thing you can do and this wat me and my partner does which is see each other every other day and he also stays at mine at weekends it makes everything between us so much better and also we go out 2gether as well even if its 2 the pub or to the cinema it makes the relationship stronger and a lot more healthy because then if your not stuck in doors all the time you don't get bored its like my partner plays skittles and i go with him as it gets me out of the flat as im not working at the moment due to the fact of bein 8 months pregnant and whn we don't see each other it makes us realise how much we love each other but also makes us realise that doing what we do makes us more happy when we do see each other and makes us enjoy it more.
hope this helps and keep us posted on how it goes
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TaintedSoul
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Reged: 06/11/2008
Posts: 2
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Hiya, Im New To This Bu I Jus Come Across This Post And Would Just Like To Say:
1st Of I Am A Teenager So I Will Be Giving Advice From My Point.
Yu & Yr Bf Have Gotten Into A Routine Which Until Now Has Been Comfortable But Unfourtunatli Its Gettin A Bit Dull,
What You Need To Do Is Rekindle The Passion In Yr Relationship Start Anew While Still Stayin The Same,
What I Mean Is You Should Try Arrangin Dates Rather Than Then Sticking With A Routine,
What Got You 2 Together In The 1st Place Is What Can Save Yr Relationship Now,
What Was It That You 2 Use 2 Do That Made Each Others Day?
Was It The Excitment Of Going On Your 1st Date That Had You Both Nervous?
Rekindle That - Dont Just Meet Up To Watch Tv Instead Dress Up Make An Efort And Arrange A Date To Go To The Cinema/Bowling Something You Both Enjoy - Laugh & Be Playful, Be Shy & Sweet - Enjoy The Moments You Spend Together,
Its Suppose To Be A Sharing Relationship So You Both Have To Make Compromise.
Hope This Helps xx
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